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Tuesday, December 23, 2014

Sydney: All the easy shots down the line - this one is for you dad

Sydney (Australia)
23 December 2014

Yesterday I saw your car parked outside of the house and for a split second, before my brain allowed me to truly remember, I got excited because I thought you were home, and then when I realised what I'd done, I tried to hold onto that feeling of you still being with us for a few seconds longer. I took those few seconds for all they were worth.
 
I still have the 2014 World Cup chart pinned up on the wall next to my desk, it gives me a chance to assign a day, time and place to the games that we watched. That was our thing. Waking up at 3am, making coffee, watching Australia play or watching any world cup match that we thought might be interesting. Sometimes I'd dose through the second half of games but I'd try and hide it from you, I'm sure that you knew I was sleeping, even when you would ask 'Henry, are you watching?'.
 
I hated hearing the racing channel blaring at anytime. I couldn't stand the sound of live race calls, but now I wish there was a reason for me to hear it again other than it allowing for me to remember you in my mind. I watch games of football and I know I lack the insight and intuition that you had to be able to analyse a game and see events before they happened. I never quite understood how you were able to do that, but you could do it, just as in the same manner you were able to read the character of a person so much faster than anyone else.
 
Now I look at photos and can't seem to reconcile the images of you smiling as you sailed on past Notre Dame, or the surprise on your face when I met you in Paris, with the memory of you. For now you exist for me in memory and in spirit, and whilst I'm thankful for all the great memories I have of you I would much rather be talking to you about them rather than thinking of them in order to give context to such a great person that was you, my dad.
 
So now, I leave this. Times that we shared whilst travelling. I was lucky enough to have had some fabulous moments with you in the last few years and they will stay with me for the rest of my life. This last journey however is one that you must do on your own and I hope that wherever your destination is that you have a chance to sit back, watch a game or two and back a winner. Let me just say that for right here and now, the space that you left is enormous and I miss you being in it, maybe we'll meet somewhere and sometime else, maybe not, but for the last 39yrs you were fantastic person and I feel more than lucky to have had a father like you.
 
Montjuic - Barcelona - Spain - (2010)
 
 
Olympic Stadium - Barcelona - Spain - (2010)
 
 
Trocadero - Paris - France - (2014)
 

Seine River cruise - Seine (Ille de Cite - Notre Dame) - Paris - France - (2014)
 
 
High Atlas Mountains - Morocco - (2010)
 
 
 
Davis Cup Semi-Final - Srbija v. Czech Republic - Belgrade - Serbia - (2010)
 
 
Outside of his primary school - Belgrade - Serbia - (2010)
 
 
Topcider - Belgrade - Serbia - (2006)
 

 
Cuban style in the High Atlas - Morocco - (2010)
 
 
'A sandy caravan' - Empty Quarter - Qasr Al Sarab Resort - United Arab Emirates - (2014)
 
 
Near Hallstat - Western Austria - (2014)
 
 

 
 Dad & Big V - Kosmaj - Serbia - (2008)
 
 
 
World Cup Semi-Final - Spain v.Germany - Temple Bar - Barcelona - (2010)
 
 
Ready for Departure - Charles Kingsford-Smith - Sydney International Airport - Sydney - Australia - (2014)
 
 
L'Hotel - 13 Rue des Beaux Arts - St.Germain - Paris - France - (2014)
 
 
Australia v.Iran - Stadium Australia - Homebush - Sydney - Australia - (2013)
 
 
 

Sunday, November 23, 2014

Paris: Vivid dreams of colour in the brightest of black and white

Paris (France)
21 SEPTEMBER 2014

 
The open French windows of our apartment on Quai de Montebello allow our curtains to carelessly dance on the  gusts of wind entering our room, both teasing and provoking us as we dose in the early hours of this Parisian morning. That unmistakable scent of rain is intoxicating and energizing, it stimulates the senses, and its driving force, silvery grey curtains falling with purpose, blanketing this city, producing such a welcoming, soothing and calming sound, working as the perfect accomplice to a Sunday morning that has no enforced obligations. I slowly open my eyes and turn. Gazing out from my vantage point I can see the greyness of the sky, the grey leaves of the trees and the grey backdrop of Notre Dame, the historical cathedral standing imperiously on Ile de la Cite. The world to me at this moment seems to be vivid in black and white, a film noir, classic, evocative, unreal. Moments such as these you just can't script.
 
The morning hours pass with the same carelessness that you associate with a dream. Wonderful in its design but coloured by the lament caused by its own fiction. That however was the point where for today we had won, we had managed to trump the 'dream theatre'   by  creating a superior reality, the city of Paris playing the perfect supporting role. Thinking back now I can only ever remember those early hours of that Parisian morning in black and white, typifying the seductive atmosphere of that morning.

Mornings such as these have a knack of passing by all too quickly. In the blink of an eye we were standing out on the street, saying our goodbyes and wondering, I'm sure, when and where in this world we'd be seeing each other again. And even though now, typing this, I know the answer to that question, those sort of goodbyes are quite cruel in their design.

Some hours later my parents and I jumped on a train at Saint-Michel Notre Dame and headed up to Gare du Nord where we in turn bundled ourselves into a cab and made our way to Montmartre. It was the only time during our stay in Paris where the weather turned on us, rain occupying the best part of this Sunday morning as we were forced to negotiate the ever present crowds up on the butte. In all honesty, unlike other times in Montmatre, the crowds made it difficult to enjoy the morning. The little village was filled to the brim and perhaps I should have thought better of heading up there when I knew the crowds would be out in force.


Au de Gascogne - Montmatre - Paris - France
 

We made our way back to the Latin Quarter around mid-afternoon. My parents priming themselves for dinner at Jules Verne restaurant on the second floor of the Eiffel tower, and me, getting ready to head out into the Marais in order to steal a few evening cocktails and then pull up a chair at Chez Robert et Louise for another one of their famous meals, and yes, as always it was fantastic. A nice Bordeaux, boudin noir, entrecote and some salad. Its just such a treat, a place that always makes me happy for the food it serves up and its ambiance. It was the fourth occasion that I've had dinner there and I always seem to walk away in the same manner, happy, content and with a slight food induced daze.

 
Evening in the Marais - Paris - France
 
Afternoon on the Seine - Paris - France
 
Evening on the Seine - Paris - France
 
Evening on the Seine - Paris - France

My walk, or rather meanderings took me back down through the Marais and back down to Ille de Cite where I was able to watch the sun drop out of sight and leave its orange glow as its own reminder of the day. Boats drifted by carelessly, and my thoughts were equally as aimless. Seriously though, how many times in your life do you fly to Paris for a first date? Or how many times do you fly to Paris in order to simply surprise someone that expects you to be on the other side of the world? As I've said so many times in this blog, there are many times when I think of my travels, their outcomes and realise just how fortunate I've been. At times I even think that my 'luck' is due to turn at some point and that rolling the dice one too many times might just turn everything on its head, but I'm addicted, and as a travel addict I'm just going to have to deal with whatever punishment that fits my crime!

Making my way back to Rue de la Harpe I waited for my parents to make their way back from Jules Verne. Somewhere close to midnight they made their way back in, with alcohol inspired cheer and raving at what a magnificent evening they had. That was it, mission accomplished for me, now I was fully satisfied.

Hitting the streets of Paris once again I made my way slowly through the Latin Quarter, once again alone, once again living in my own thoughts but already thinking ahead as to where and when my next port of call would be. Only the night before Inga and I had been discussing a few months in South America in 2015, and writing now about what my thoughts were then, I'm happy to advise myself that I'll be spending  three months with Inga, in South America commencing in Buenos Aires on the 28th of March, 2015! So watch this space, 2015 is going to be an amazing year for both my own travels and the unravelling of an amazing storyline that commenced some four years ago.

 

Monday, November 3, 2014

Paris: What midnight in Paris commits

Paris (France)
20 SEP 2014

 

'Rivers know this: there is no hurry. We shall get there some day.’

...Also see Friday in Paris which accompanies this blog entry.

I don’t need to re-tell our story, suffice to say, we met on a beautiful Summers’ afternoon in Riga and I waved goodbye at 3am, walking out of the bar with the promise of an almighty hangover and a crudely drawn map in my pocket. Four years later we had our first date in Paris…and it was unforgettable!

It started here: Riga - Latvian nightmoves

...this is what happens when destiny gives you a second chance.

 

KLM flight to Paris. This is how you should get to a first date! Amsterdam Schipol Airport - Holland
 
Leaving my bag behind, thank you KLM and Air France! Amsterdam Schipol Airport - Holland
 
Apartment view over the Seine to Notre Dame - 19 Quai de Montebello - Latin Quarter - Paris - France
 
View over the Seine from the second level of the Eiffel Tower - Paris - France
 
The famous Champs Elysees from the top of the Arc de Triomphe - Paris - France
 
The Eiffel Tower from the Arc de Triomphe - Paris - France

I always liked the look of this place - Au de Cadet Gascogne - 4 Place du Tetre- Montmartre - Paris - France
 
Evening view along Seine - Paris - France
 
Notre Dame - Paris - France
 
Finally got my luggage and my clothes back! A shame it was 2:30am and on the morning I was leaving! Anyway, here's a 'selfie' @ 19 Quai de Montebello - Latin Quarter - Paris - France
 
 
 
 19 Quai de Montebello - Latin Quarter - Paris - France
 
 
 
 

Friday, October 24, 2014

Paris: Conversations in the key of ascent

Paris (France)
19 SEP 2014

You know that buzz that inhabits your body the day after you’ve done something particularly cool, or that sense of satisfaction that you get from achieving a goal? That was me, at that very moment. I’d woken up mid- early morning to a very foreign, yellow hued glow coming from the streetlights along the Seine, cheekily breaking their way through the sheer window curtains of the apartment. Completely uninvited of course, but its Parisian light and the standard rules for courtesy don’t seem to apply here in the manner and style that they do elsewhere. I do however like these moments when in a foreign city.  Laying in silence and listening to the sound of a solitary vehicle making its way up Quai de Montebllo, I imagined it to be cutting through the early morning tug-a-war between synthetic light and shadow. I tuned in on both its arrival and departure from two floors above its transit line. It’s funny, but in eternal quiet you never really capture the solitude and isolation of what that silence actually means until it’s actually broken. It’s why I liked that particular moment, I was alone, ‘somewhere else’ in this world that wasn’t home, and to me that’s always an exciting prospect.

If both the lesson and achievement of day before was the execution of a surprise then today was going to be the realisation of my own piece of destiny.  To quote a saying that my mother often spruikes , ‘It’s not to whom it is said or written, but rather, to whom it is destined’.  Only now, looking back do I know that I was never going to obtain that ever elusive ticket to the World Cup final in Rio, nor was I ever going to have an afternoon in the sun-bathed vineyards of Saint-Émilion, even though the plans had been set, it appears that my destiny was always going to be act as Parisian tour guide for my parents and  to find myself on a somewhat impossible first date with a gorgeous girl that I’d met in Riga just the once 4 years ago. Some stories you just can’t create, not without the intervention of fate.
 
19 Quai de Montebello - sunlight breaking through - Latin Quarter - Paris - France

The lonely solemn streets of a Parisian dawn quickly turn into fervour, induced completely by the banal necessity of daily Parisian life. The intense noise of city streets in the morning  have the tendency to annoy me, well, annoy me when I’m still in a muted slumber. It’s the not due to the volume of noise either but rather its weight and intensity. The energy and earnestness, the urgency and eagerness, the implied anger and frustrations, somehow there’s a transference of that irritable energy to me and I always feel compelled to ditch my intentions and get moving.

Cutting through the backstreets of the Latin Quarter I fell back into my earlier mood of excitement and exhilaration. These backstreets  were still empty, yet to be tapped on the door by the streams of sunlight that had already cut across the continent from the far east.  Here, in these small hours, I could still own snapshots of this day that nobody else  in the world would ever see but me. That’s cool.
Something for me - Rue Galande - Latin Quarter - Paris - France
 
Coming to rest in the living room of #42 Rue de la Harpe, I stuck my head out the window and gazed at what I could only assume to be the typical Parisian setting in this part of town. French style architecture bounding small medieval type streets, filled with false French balconies that more often than not supported pots filled with colourful flowers. I just sat there for a few moments to appreciate to vista. Then I heard the laboured movements of my parents coming from their bedroom, attempting to stir themselves into daily existence.
 
Outlook from #42 Rue de la Harpe - Latin Quarter - Paris - France

The disbelief of the night before was still very much with us, along with the continued questioning of how I managed to pull off the stunt. Dad kept repeating that he was certain ‘Up until the last Skype conversation’ that I was on my way to Paris for an ‘intercept’, thankfully that conversation convinced him otherwise.
Black coffee, croissants and the smoke of my mums’ cigarettes filled the quaint Parisian apartment. I think it was one of those rare times when I could handle her cigarette smoke, and even considered it charming in the given setting. Enjoying the conversation of the morning I outlined our plans for the day, ‘Tour of the Eiffel tower in the morning, afternoon lunch, open top bus tour, then finally a dinner cruise on the Seine’. It sounded like full-time work from the start but something that I always get a lot of pleasure out of doing, which is, seeing the enjoyment and surprise in the faces of the people that I love when they discover a new place.
 
Parisian breakfast - Rue de la Harpe - Latin Quarter - Paris - France
 
Rue de la Harpe - Latin Quarter - Paris - France
 
Your 'breakfast cliche', brought to you by Paris - France
 
As our taxi cut through the mid-morning fracas of traffic on Quai Voltaire and turned left onto Pont de la Concorde I could see that  there was visible disbelief in the faces of my parents. Disbelief from the fact that they were actually in Paris and disbelief that I was undertaking such a mundane task of catching a cab with them, in Paris too! In their minds I was still back in Sydney doing ‘who knows what’, and yet here I was, occupying one of the jump seats just as the cab pulled up to the Palais de Chaillot which overlooks the Jardins du Trocadero.

On its own the gardens of the Trocadero are impressive in their grandeur but the ‘oohs’ and ‘ahs’ that you hear from the top of the stairs of the Trocadero are always reserved for the centrepiece of the French capital, the Eiffel tower.
Mum and dad at the Palais de Chaillot - Paris - France
 
The Eiffel Tower taken from above the Jardins du Trocadero - Paris - France
 
Eiffel tower - Paris - France
 
As iconic as a building can be I would challenge anyone to name a structure that identifies a city and country more readily than the tower. All of its impressive 301mtrs of stature can be viewed from the steps of the Palais de Chaillot, apparently a fair rarity in this city. It’s a funny thing, but after seeing their reaction and remembering my own when I first saw the Eiffel tower, I recall that I only truly realised that I was in Paris after I had seen the tower with my own eyes. So to say that the Eiffel tower ‘is’ Paris would not be any sort of grand overstatement.
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After finding our tour guide only at the very last moment we all made our way down through the Jardins du Trocadero and to the base of the structure. Now it was time for a dose of reality. Whereas standing from afar and appreciating the tower can be lesson in awe, the crowds of hungry tourists waiting for their own piece of Eiffel can be a lesson in ‘necessary patience’. From ground to level 2, from level 2 to summit, your space is constantly occupied by ‘unwanted’ clients who may have more vigour and purpose in their ascent than you. Still, this is Paris, and this is what you do ‘ the first time around’. So when we all reached the summit and cast our eyes on what really is a grand city, we allowed ourselves to indulge in three ‘chilled glasses of cliché’ and appreciated the over-priced champagne at the none-too creatively named Bar a champagne that occupied the rooftop of Paris. Still, it will always be one of those fond moments that will be easily retrievable from the memory banks.
Champ de Mars from the Eiffel Tower
'Tower shadows' - Paris - France
 
'Smile for the cliche' - Champagne at 'Bar a Champagne' - Eiffel Tower summit - Paris - France
 
Looking down the Seine from the summit of the Eiffel Tower
 
Our afternoon was spent back in the heart of the Latin Quarter where we pulled up a few chairs for a late afternoon lunch at a fairly typical bistro. I was still hoping also that Air France was going to ‘express courier’ my lost luggage in the afternoon and wanted to be within striking distance should they have considered it time to do work that afternoon, of course I need not have bothered! My luggage wasn’t delivered until 2:30AM on the morning that I was scheduled to leave. An absolutely pathetic performance from Air France from start to finish! Devoid of customer service, completely shambolic in both their approach and treatment of me, it was the worst dealing I’ve had with an airline in all my time travelling.
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As another glorious Parisian day started to wind down and those familiar sunburnt hues started to occupy the rooftops of the buildings in the Latin Quarter once again, I sat in front of the large French windows that provided a wonderful outlook over the Seine, directly in front of Notre Dame and the Place Jean-Paul II,  within touching distance of ‘point zero des routes France’, in other words the ‘official centre of Paris’. I marvelled just quietly at how lucky I’d been with the weather thus far. Checking ALL forecasts prior to arrival I had anticipated the worst that Paris could offer with cloud, rain and heavy thunderstorms projected for ALL days. Here I was, nearing the end of my second full day and already I had had several randoms comment to me how unseasonably warm and spectacular the weather was. Indeed, if I could have placed through my own request to Mother Nature asking for the days that we actually ended up receiving then I’m sure the trade-off would have required the sale of a kidney.
As the lights of Paris started to take hold, all three of us were picked up on Rue de la Harpe for our Seine dinner cruise on the Bateux Parisiens. This was to be an absolutely wonderful 3-4hr boat cruise which gave us the chance to view some of the highlights of Paris along the Seine, with a more than adequate four course meal and champagne/wine to  place us in exactly the right type of mood. Making its way effortlessly up the left bank, the remaining sunlight relinquished its authority of the day and gave in to the artificial light of the night that admittedly was even more impressive. Gazing out from our glass cacoon we witnessed the grand sights of Paris silently move through our frame of vision, a kaleidoscope of colour on the water. Ducking under more than a hatful of the total 32 bridges that span the Seine, by the time we had reached Notre Dame my mind had fully started to occupy the space of that I was dedicating to where I would be at midnight, because as you know, all great first dates commence in Paris at midnight! (Of course ;)).I looked up to the apartment that I had left earlier in the afternoon and knew that by now she had arrived, now I just has that internal urgency to be there right at this moment. I wasn’t at all nervous however, just extremely excited.
 
Bateux Parisians - On the Seine - Paris - France
 
Bateux Parisians - On the Seine - Paris - France
 
Bateux Parisians - On the Seine - Paris - France
 
Bateux Parisians - On the Seine - Paris - France
 
An hour or two later we rounded Ile aux Cygnes after having our ‘cup runneth over’ with spectacular views of the tower lit up at night. It really is a sight to behold, although you definitely have the tendency of taking more photos than are really necessary. By the time we docked and were underway through the Parisian night my head was already trying to picture a moment, a face, an instant that I (we) had now been in the planning for 6 months, all the while, attempting to retrieve images of an evening in Riga that occurred 4yrs ago. So by the time I took the walk from Rue de la Harpe to Quai de Montebello I was ready, buzzing internally.
Bateux Parisians - On the Seine - Paris - France
The Eiffel Tower from the Seine
The Eiffel Tower from the Seine
Making it to street level at 19 Quai de Montebello I entered in the two pin numbers that gave me access to the building and made my way up to the 2nd floor, heart pounding just a little more frequently. Reaching for the keys and turning the door, I saw that lights had been dimmed, and there she was, sitting against the window with the lights of Notre Dame illuminating her frame and acting as her backdrop.

I looked at her...

…and she smiled