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Sunday, July 2, 2017

Rome (Italy) - The Birthday - Our Wedding - Part 4

ROME (Italy)
02 July - 03 July 2017


No rest for the wicked in this day and age, right of the back of our wedding celebrations came my 42nd birthday. Bidding farewell to our families in the morning, Inga & I, accompanied by my best man, Janelle, headed north to the capital of Rome. This was to be the exit point for both Janelle and ourselves, with JJ heading back for home and us, heading on our honeymoon. With that said, we did have one night left in us and Janelle's brother, Jarrod, was flying into town from London in order to catch up with his sister and join us in my birthday celebrations.

The standard state of getting re-acquainted with an Australian that you haven't seen for a while is to have a drink, and of course in Rome there's no shortage of options. We took up residence at one of the bars on the Tiber River whilst chatting. This also allowed me to set the scene for what I had planned this evening as nobody, other than myself, knew what we were getting up to for my birthday celebrations.


Tiber River - Rome - Italy

Tiber River - Rome - Italy

Tiber River - Rome- Italy

Tiber River - Rome- Italy

Tiber River - Rome- Italy


For this evening I decided that I wanted to change things up a little bit and not hit the typical bar or restaurant which is what made me decided on making a reservation with Eat With Me, (Federica & Barbara of BB Kitchen). What this is essentially is like a covert Supper Club, or as they would call it down in Buenos Aires, a puerto cerrado. In these scenarios you end up going to the chef's house and eating a pre-determined meal prepared by them. Usually....and I say usually because I can only imagine it to be case, the venues are intimate, a little clandestine and atmospheric.

The home of Frederica was in the Trastervere area of Rome, a locale of winding cobblestone streets, tons of charm and more authenticity, or so I felt, than the centre of the city. Their apartment itself was quite nice and I would say large for Rome considering that about 20 odd people stood in it comfortably and were seated on the accompanying terrace more than easily. 

As a venue I think it stood up well, ambient lighting, some well placed greenery and having a reasonable outlook over the rooftops in the area, it actually did feel like you'd been invited to a random dinner party in Rome, albeit that the guests were from all over the world. 



Eat with me - Federica & Barbara of BB Kitchen - Trastervere - Rome- Italy


Eat with me - Federica & Barbara of BB Kitchen - Trastervere - Rome- Italy


Eat with me - Federica & Barbara of BB Kitchen - Trastervere - Rome- Italy


Eat with me - Federica & Barbara of BB Kitchen - Trastervere - Rome- Italy


Eat with me - Federica & Barbara of BB Kitchen - Trastervere - Rome- Italy


In scenarios such as these, seating at communal tables can come undone quite quickly if you don't have an unwritten commitment from all parties to both instigate conversation and to invest enough time in keeping it running. Thankfully we had a lovely couple from Finland, Paivi Tontti and her husband Juha Tontti, and an equally as engaged Canadian couple, Pamela Keegan and her partner. Add to that a few Australians and one Latvian into the mix and you had a veritable United Nations gathered at the culinary negotiation table.



Eat with me - Federica & Barbara of BB Kitchen - Trastervere - Rome- Italy


Eat with me - Federica & Barbara of BB Kitchen - Trastervere - Rome- Italy


For something different and to have an experience in Rome that was relatively unique, the experience was a lot of fun. Actually after the event all our table went out drinking in the Trastervere area, effectively having the party kick-on. I suspect it could have become an absolute rager but for the fact that we were catching flights the next day. So the three Australians and the Latvian did the mature thing and bundled ourselves into a cab at a noble time.



Post meal drink - this looks like a round of tequila shots to me!


The next morning was sluggish for us all. Random artefacts from the night prior appearing within our lucid morning prompting memories of drinks gone by. After picking ourselves up we headed out for some breakfast and made considerations to head to the Colosseum. 



Rome Fiumicino Airport- Italy


On our way to Rio via Lisbon - Rome Fiumicino Airport- Italy



When you have left over champagne...obviously champagne should never be left over, but if there's a time when it happens then drinking it at check-in on a flight to Rio is acceptable
Rome Fiumicino Airport- Italy


With the sun high but with time running short this is where we had to bid our farewells, unfortunately the Colosseum tour would need to wait for another day. Still, what a wonderful fours days it had been for us. A time of our lives that we'll never forget, certainly. But now it was time to head off on our honeymoon, and that meant heading to the airport and catching a big bird down to good 'ole Rio, Rio by the Sea-o


Flying down to Rio where there's rhythm and rhyme
Hey feller, twirl that old propeller
Got to get to Rio and we've got to make time
You'll love it, soaring high above it
Looking down on Rio from a heaven of blue
Send a radio to Rio de Janeiro
With a big hello just so they'll know and stand by there
We'll fly there
Oh, Rio, ev'rything will be okay
We're singing and winging our way to you





Tuesday, April 11, 2017

Vatican City & Rome (Italy) - Michelangelo did what?

VATICAN CITY / ROME (ITALY)
11 April - 12 April 2017


Back in Rome after spending a few days in Amalfi and I must say, we were quite satisfied with our decision to have our wedding location set as Amalfi on the Sorrentine Peninsula. Now it was going to be all about the logistics and doing wedding fine tuning, getting into all that small stuff that binds the big day together.

Before our flight back to Belgrade was had a full day available  to us and decided to visit another country so that we could add it to our list, so we took a step onto the territory of the Vatican City. The idea that we had was that we'd take a guided tour through the grounds of the Vatican, take in the museum, the Sistine Chapel and St. Peters Basilica.


Rome - Italy

On the border of Rome (Italy) and the Vatican City

Vatican museum - Vatican City

Vatican museum - Vatican City


....And what a freakin' circus that turned out to be !! The crowds were just insane. There didn't appear  be any rhyme or reason as to the manner of entry, no restrictions on numbers, tourists groups absolutely everywhere. I recognise that as a tourist I contributed directly to the lunacy and the uncomfortable position that we were all place in, but hell, there needs to be some sort of regulation about access the Vatican museum and the Sistine Chapel. Crowds, stuffy rooms, lack of access to bathrooms, its truly awful.


Vatican museum - Vatican City

Vatican museum - Vatican City

Vatican museum - Vatican City

Vatican museum - Vatican City

Vatican museum - Vatican City


The Sistine Chapel of course is impressive. It's an absolute highlight and without the throngs of people overcrowding the one room and being farmed into the equivalent of a viewing pen and then shoved, aggressively corralled and addressed in a demeaning fashion, not only diminished the experience but left more than a bitter taste in our mouths.


Sistine Chapel - Vatican museum - Vatican City

Sistine Chapel - Vatican museum - Vatican City

Sistine Chapel - Vatican museum - Vatican City

Sistine Chapel - Vatican museum - Vatican City

St. Peters Basilica - Vatican City

St. Peters Basilica - Vatican City


Access to the top of St.Peters Basicalla was far more pleasurable that few hours we spent i the depths of the Vatican torture chambers. The building is unquestionably grand but when you peer to the vast space below from viewing points at the top of the dome you can't help but marvel in awe at the engineering feet to create such a structure. As a human dedication to an unworldly God, I'd say that it would probably impress the deity more than enough knowing the capacity it imbued us with. From that perspective, we could say that 'maybe' our hearts and minds were in the right place. That's not me showing you my hand at what I think of the Vatican and the Catholic brainwash mechanism, it's just an observation that the driving force to create can also come from a righteous place (although yes, there are arguments against that too).


View of Rome from St. Peters Basilica - Vatican City

St. Peters Basilica - Vatican City

St. Peters Basilica - Vatican City

St. Peters Basilica - Vatican City

View of Rome from St. Peters Basilica - Vatican City

St. Peters Basilica - Vatican City

St. Peters Basilica - Vatican City

St. Peters Basilica - Vatican City

The Tibris - Rome - Italy

Spanish steps - Rome - Italy

Rome - Italy

Rome - Italy

Rome - Italy


Rome is an interesting city. I think over rated in some ways and under rated in others. There's certainly a link to a behemoth past that is undeniable and for a modern Rome very much build on the foundation of that past is impressive to see.

Friday, April 7, 2017

Rome (Italy) - Testing the waters

ROME (ITALY)
07 April – 08 April 2017

In planning our wedding the initial concern was identifying  a suitable location. Riga could very well have been an option but tempting fate with the weather there, even in Summer, might have only lead to heartbreak and disappointment. Belgrade on the other hand just wasn’t a wedding destination draw card. A nice enough city of course but for our wedding? I wanted something dramatic and memorable. That therefore set the scene for a virtual hunt, so we went scouting for what would thus become our very own wedding destination for a destination wedding.

Initially Spain and France made our list of probable locations but due to various administrative difficulties it made the process of getting married almost impossible and unnecessarily complicated. Late one December evening in 2016 I had a moment of inspiration and clarity. Amalfi and its coastline came to me in a rush, Italy might just be the tonic that we needed. It fit the criteria of course, almost certain to have sunshine in Summer, with a  dramatic coastline that dropped startlingly into the beautifully  blue Tyrrhenian Sea, reasonable proximity to both Belgrade and Riga whilst also not being in either of those locations so that neither could have claim favouritism.


Australian Consulate - Rome - Italy

Rome - Italy

Monumento Nazionale a Vittorio Emanuele II  - Rome - Italy


With some research we discovered that Italy did allow foreigners to marry in their country with reasonable ease and so, with the assistance of a wedding planner on site in Amalfi, we got to planning our big day.

Administrative requirements

Weddings don’t happen without necessary administrative duties being undertaken before the  actual date. This in fact was our primary for going to Rome, and of course then, the natural follow on would be that we’d head down to Amalfi and check out our venue, which until this point we’d only seen via online photos.

Now first, let me outline the administrative requirements as a foreigner wanting to marry in Italy that need to be met in advance of the knot being tied.

The Atto Notorio – basically this is a sworn affidavit that you get need to have completed at least three months prior to the wedding. A confirmation of civil status, residential details etc. This we needed to have completed at the Australian Embassy and then have filed across town in a registry.


Monumento Nazionale a Vittorio Emanuele II  - Rome - Italy

Rome - Italy

Rome - Italy

Rome - Italy

Rome - Italy


Now, here’s where we had a bit of fun. The wedding planner, who wasn’t that great a planner at all, actually in this situation, assisted us a great deal. She managed to organise witnesses we needed at the Australian Consulate to have the documentation done and also accompany us in terms of the filing of the Atto Notorio. I had also, somewhat courageously, decided that whilst in Rome I would rent a car and drive us around town.

Let me say here, motorists in Rome are NUTS. They are simply unpredictable and move at such velocity that your decision making can’t be delayed. You need to act and be confident in your moves, make them without hesitation. This is where a couple of years of experience driving in Belgrade came as a trump card that I pulled out of my back pocket for just this occasion. Had I have not had that grounding in the art of irrational driving then attempting to get across the city of Rome \ would have been a nightmare. In fact, I did so well that I received a magnificent compliment from our Italian assistant when she said, ‘You don’t drive like an Australian, you drive like an Italian’. Which to me was music to my ears but I think it came more out of fear for her own safety than a comment meant to inspire and commend me on what I was actually doing.


Rome - Italy

Rome - Italy

Rome - Italy

Colosseum - Rome - Italy

Colosseum - Rome - Italy


Second administrative requirement, the Nulla Ostrathe second document I needed to provide – was also completed at the Australia embassy. Basically this is a form that needs to be filled by foreigners that want to be married in the country, it shows their intent to do so and in what time frame.

Thankfully getting the administrative components out of the way in Rome was relatively easy and only took the morning to complete. The final step, the Civil Ceremony, is one that still now I’m still suspicious of. Apparently this is the lodgement of the Atto Notorio and Nulla Osta in the marriage office, or Town Hall, of the Italian City where you plan to marry. I’ll discuss this a little more when I get to talking about our stay in Amalfi, but let me say, something inside me seems to still believe that somehow we were married on 09 APRIL 2017 in a Civil Ceremony rather than 30 JUNE 2017…our marriage certificate does say 30 JUNE 2017 but I think its suspect.


Colosseum - Rome - Italy

Colosseum - Rome - Italy

Colosseum - Rome - Italy

Rome - Italy

Rome - Italy

Fontona di Trevi - Rome - Italy

Fontona di Trevi - Rome - Italy


Administration aside, our free afternoon and evening in Rome allowed us the briefest of moments of sightseeing, which in turn allowed us to take in the Colosseum, the Monumento Nazionale a Vittorio Emanuele II and the magnificent Fontana di Trevi. The final stop was a pretty cool experience for me. I remember back in 2008 when I came to Rome the first time I did the three coins tosses into the Trevi, which legend has it that if you complete all three, that the 1st means that you will return to Rome, the 2nd ensures a new romance and the 3rd ensures marriage. Well Fontana di Trevi, here I was again, with my fiancee in Rome completing what we needed to do in order to get married. I say legend has it pretty much spot on.


Fontona di Trevi - Rome - Italy

Fontona di Trevi - Rome - Italy

Fontona di Trevi - Rome - Italy

Fontona di Trevi - Rome - Italy

Fontona di Trevi - Rome - Italy

Fontona di Trevi - Rome - Italy


A beautiful city in its eternal beauty and chaos, sadly we only had a few hours to experience what it had to offer but we would be back in a few days. The next day we were off to Amalfi and finally we would get to see if our ‘hunch’ and having a destination wedding in this neck of the woods would pay dividends.